Learn about what can happen when the statement, “I’m only having sex because you want it” has on your marriage. | "A sense of duty is useful in work but offensive is personal relations. People wish to be liked not endured with patient resignation." —Bertrand Russell
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your mar ... Show More
Jun 2
914: Summer Connection Doesn't Just Happen
Learn about how to create connection in your marriage over the summer instead of assuming that more time, vacations, or a different schedule will automatically bring you closer. | “Connection is the energy that is created between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued.” —B ... Show More
25m 55s
May 26
913: When Time Off Becomes Another To Do List
Learn about what happens when time off becomes another to-do list and your marriage gets squeezed out by projects, interruptions, responsibilities, and everyone else’s needs. | “Rest is not idleness.” —John Lubbock Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like ... Show More
27 m
Sep 2023
How to Supercharge the Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage
<p>In today's episode, we explore communication, understanding your partner, and fostering mutual spiritual, physical, sexual, and recreational intimacy. It's not just about theory, but it's packed with practical steps including incoorporating daily connections int ... Show More
19m 14s
Feb 2025
399 - Reintegrating Sex After Betrayal
<p>In this episode, we tackle the challenging yet crucial topic of reintegrating sex into a marriage after betrayal. Rebecca Vander Meer and Traci Wright, two Pure Desire Clinicians, share why this is such a struggle for many couples and the common mistakes that can hinder progre ... Show More
1h 5m
Oct 2025
Jay’s Must-Listens: Marriage Isn’t About Finding “The One” (5 Truths Every Couple Needs to Hear Before Marriage!)
How do you know when you’re ready to commit? Do you think love alone is enough? Marriage isn’t a destination, it’s a daily practice. It’s the ongoing choice to show up, grow, and recommit to each other through every season of change. In this special compilation, Jay brings togeth ... Show More
53m 7s
Feb 2025
397 - The Deep Rooted Marriage w/ Dr. Dan Allender
<p>In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Dan Allender, renowned author and counselor, to discuss the themes of his latest book: <i>The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight</i>. Dan shares the inspiration behind writing it and offers powerful insights i ... Show More
52m 23s
Feb 2025
398 - Rebuilding Marital Trust w/ Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith
<p>In this episode, we delve into the emotional journey of couples healing from betrayal. We’re joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, relationship experts and authors, who share insights from their work on the Intimacy Pyramid—a framework designed to help couples rebuild trust, ... Show More
54m 9s
Jan 2025
270: Marriage & Money: Magnetize Your Man with Financial Intimacy
<p dir="ltr">💡 Want to feel irresistible to your man while creating a deeper connection, more abundance, and financial intimacy?</p> <p dir="ltr">One of these 4 common mistakes might be blocking you! I'll reveal the surprising solution that transformed my marriage, made me magne ... Show More
15m 43s