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Aug 2023
50m 11s

How Not To Settle In A Relationship Pt1

Dr. Phil McGraw
About this episode

We often get back what we give in our connections with others, whether it is a friend, co-worker, lover, or spouse. Dr. Phil talks about this idea and emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for the quality of our relationships by being a "life manager." He also highlights the significance of having a positive relationship with oneself before improving other relationships. Learn how we can take control of our own lives and program our relationships based on our lifestyle choices.


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