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Feb 2025
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The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Ha...

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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A lot of people go into marriage with a 50/50 mindset. Everything in the relationship — from tangible things like childcare and chores to intangible things like the effort and energy needed to keep the partnership going — is supposed to be divided equally.The 50/50 approach to relationships is all about fairness. And that seems sensible and rational.But, my ... Show More
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