episode-header-image

Sep 2023

11m 18s

You Can’t Read Your Spouse’s Mind!

FOCUS ON THE FAMILY

About this episode

Time for an honest question, have you tried to read your spouse's mind? Jim Daly and Counselor Randy Schroeder explain why that's not a good thing for your marriage. You'll also hear John Fuller and Erin Smalley talk about ways you and your spouse can share your honest thoughts with each other, instead of relying on assumptions.

Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY

Receive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount!

The Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment is designed to evaluate the strength of 12 essential traits of your marriage. Do you know your marriage's strengths and weaknesses?

The Reactive Cycle

You Didn't Marry a Mind Reader: How to Communicate Your Expectations

If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Up next

Fine China, and Simple Blessings

<p>What does the Bible mean when it calls wives a "weaker vessel?" Jay and Laura Laffoon join Jim Daly to offer a beautiful perspective on what that term actually means. Then, Erin and Greg explain why speaking encouragement to your spouse is critically important.</p> <p> </ ... Show More

Be Careful with Physical Touch

<p>Most affairs can be traced back to small compromises. Erin Smalley addresses how she's seen that very truth in her counseling practice, and why there's still hope if you're feeling tempted. Plus, Jim Daly and popular author, Jerry Jenkins, share why it's important to be guarde ... Show More

Practical Ways to Guard Against Temptation

<p>All of us need boundaries to protect ourselves from sexual temptation. Greg and Erin open up about something that helps them fight tempting thoughts. Then, Jim Daly talks to Jerry Jenkins about how men can protect themselves around women.</p> <p> </p> <p>Find us online at ... Show More

Recommended Episodes

How to Stay Crazy in Love With Your Spouse (Part 1 of 2)

Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of couples prioritizing time together, connecting on a deeper emotional level. They stress the importance of physical intimacy in marriage; urging men to care for their wives and encouraging women to “prepare” themselves for intimacy. ... Show More

How To Create Emotional Intimacy With Your Spouse

<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1725542/open_sms">Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!</a></p><p>Intimacy is not always physical. It often has an emotional component to it, and today we talk about how you can create that emotional connect ... Show More

3 Tips To Fix Communication In Your Marriage TODAY

Is your marriage suffering from silent treatment and misunderstandings? Communication problems are common, but don't despair! Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, shares how to rebuild connection and bring back intimacy in marriage with 3 essential tips. In this video, y ... Show More

769: YOU DON'T LOVE ME

Learn about rebuilding the connection when it feels like your spouse doesn’t love you because they don’t know what you want. | "Great relationships are built on clarity not mind reading." —Steve Arterburn Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” conn ... Show More

Best of 2023: Changing Your Mindset in Marriage

In the best of 2023 broadcast, Ted Lowe helps you better understand how a shift in your thoughts toward yourself and your spouse can give you a healthier and more loving marriage. By looking at your spouse through the filter of Philippians 4:8, you’ll learn ways to examine your m ... Show More

120. What Are You Thinking? - How Your Thoughts Affect Your Marriage

<p>We have heard you loud and clear…we want more Dave Meyer! So it's time for a marriage discussion, part 2, that you don't want to miss. In this episode, Dave's back on the pink couch with Joyce, Ginger, and Erin to talk through even more of the many lessons they've learned in ... Show More

My Spouse Says They Don't Love Me Anymore

<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1725542/open_sms">Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!</a></p><p>Nobody wants to hear it. And if you've heard it, it hurts... It's when your spouse looks at you and says, "I don't love y ... Show More

790: THE GREATEST THREAT TO OUR MARRIAGE IS APATHY

Apathy in your marriage can get you so locked up in your own world that you become oblivious to what’s going on around you. | "Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike." —JK Rowling Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like- ... Show More

Listen to millions of songs and podcasts on Anghami