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Jun 2023
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410: Fairness In Relationships

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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Do you feel like you're carrying an unfair load in your relationship? The truth is, no relationship will be perfectly split with household responsibilities, carpooling the kids, taking care of the bills and any other number of responsibilities. However, it is important that both partners feel the relationship is fair. Listen to today's episode to learn what ... Show More
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