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Jan 2025
18m 3s

Taking a Confrontational Stance: Coachin...

ELENA AGUILAR
About this episode

Change is why we coach. And it’s why working with a client who is stuck, resistant, or has hit a plateau can be so frustrating. In these moments, you need to be prepared to take a confrontational stance. That’s what Elena will show you how to do in this episode. 

Notable moments: 

00:44 Introduction to Today's Roleplay Demonstration

04:12 Exploring Emotions and Reactions

09:41 Considering Next Steps and Solutions

15:20 Final Thoughts and Acknowledgements

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Reflection questions: 

  • What comes to mind for you when considering taking a confrontational stance? 
  • How did Elena’s demonstration confirm or challenge the ideas you had? 
  • What is one thing you want to try in an upcoming conversation? 

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