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Jan 2025
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32 lessons I wish I knew sooner about lo...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

Happy birthday to me!! It's CAPRICORN SEASON and I am turning 32 years old. Every year, I like to reflect back on the valuable life lessons I've learned, and this year is a special one because it's the first year I can confidently say I feel more empowered and in living in my truth to the fullest.

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