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Jan 2025
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The Art of Accepting Anxiety: Getting Pr...

Drew Linsalata
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HOW DO I ACCEPT ANXIETY?!?!?!?!

Let's start a three-part series on accepting anxiety using the ACT Tri-flex framework. As both a therapist and former anxiety sufferer, I'm going to break down the crucial first practical step of getting present and what it really means in a practical way.

KEY POINTS:

  • Why there are no "steps" to accepting anxiety
  • The difference between "doing mode" and "being mode"
  • What mindfulness actually means in anxiety recovery
  • How to develop nonjudgmental awareness
  • Why automatic reactions aren't truly automatic

QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: 

  • "Accepting anxiety is about dropping out of doing and into being." 
  • "We are essentially judging, evaluating, and resisting machines all day long." 
  • "There is no difference between automatically reaching for an ice pack when anxious and automatically liking or disliking the weather."

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

  • ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)
  • Dr. Russ Harris's ACT Tri-flex
  • The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
  • Drew's interview with Dr. Steven Hayes on The Disordered Podcast
  • Drew's interview with Dr. Russ Harris on The Disordered Podcast

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For full show notes on this episode:
https://theanxioustruth.com/309

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