BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more.
00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community
02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn
05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners
07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play
11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase full of safety
15:23 Discovering sex, reclaiming their body, and post cum clarity
19:56 Survival sex work, living in a cage, and unlocking sexual freedom
26:06 Dominance, secrecy, and tips for topping
31:08 Turned on by dancing for money and attention
34:30 What Spike loves about carnal and casual intimacy
36:36 Highly sensitive nipples and tender sensuality
41:01 Spit, self-flagellation, and casting spells
44:01 Solo toy explorations, strokers, and masturbation climaxes
46:56 Personal and pro partnered play
52:36 Foot play, power dynamics, and leather
58:15 Drag shows, male attention, and trying new things
1:00:52 Loving community, communication, and consent
📈 STATS | 37 queer polyamorous gender nonconforming latinx human, they/them/he pronouns, married to partner of 13 years, artist, producer, entertainer, performer, gogo dancer, onlyfans creator, Southern California, into: feet, spit, cages, BDSM, Dominance, submission, drag
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