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Jan 2025
47m 15s

Wellness 2.0: Who Do You Want To Be?

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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We all have to make certain choices in life, such as where to live and how to earn a living. Parents and peers influence our major life choices, but they can also steer us in directions that leave us deeply unsatisfied. This week: a favorite conversation with psychologist Ken Sheldon about the science of figuring out what you want. He says there are things w ... Show More
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