So many of our choices are shaped by “shoulds” — expectations handed down from family, society, or social media. In this episode, Dora explores how mindfulness helps you notice whose standards you’re living by and how to release the ones that don’t serve you, so you can live life on your own terms.
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Imagine Without Predicting
When your mind starts running through everything that could happen, it can be hard to remember that you're here, in this moment, and not inside the future you're imagining. Dora offers a different way to relate to uncertainty, one that doesn't ask you to stop caring about what co ... Show More
5m 53s
Oct 2
Why We're So Afraid Of Endings
We know intellectually that nothing lasts forever. Still, when our relationship ends, our circumstances change, or our chapter closes, impermanence suddenly feels a lot harder to accept. Dora looks at why we struggle against something we encounter every day, and how accepting lif ... Show More
4m 34s
Oct 2024
3346: How to Deal Wth Expectations AND 5 Steps to Envision Your Ideal Life by Shirley of Daring Living
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Episode 3346:
Shirley from DaringLiving.com explores how millennials can navigate the often overwhelming expectations placed on the ... Show More
10m 9s
Feb 2024
Letting Go of People Pleasing, with Dora
Dora and Robin answer questions about sharing your anxiety with new friends, balancing your mental health with that of your partner, and making decisions when you are a people pleaser. Follow Robin here or at Well…Adjusting and follow Dora here. Try the Headspace app free for 30 ... Show More
34m 6s
Apr 2023
Let Your Light Shine: Owning Your Authenticity
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by society's expectations? Like you have to act, look, or work in a certain way to fit in? It's tough and we can lose our true selves.
In this episode, we'll talk about why it's important to be yourself and give practical tips to break away from conf ... Show More
20m 20s
May 2024
Encore Episode: How to Handle Overspending, with Dora
Dora and Robin answer questions about dealing with family and inheritances, how to stop overspending, and can meditation really change life-long problems Follow Robin here or at Well…Adjusting and follow Dora here. Try the Headspace app free for 30 days here. To send us your ques ... Show More
38m 21s
May 2025
How to Get Out of Your Own Way
In this episode, we explore how our judgments—not external events—shape our emotional world, from a child’s toy envy to ancient Stoic parables and the quiet wisdom of Nan Shepherd.Using Epictetus’s insights and Shepherd’s meditative reflections, we examine how reclaiming control ... Show More
5m 36s