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Jan 2025
9m 10s

Hooked on Struggle: Why It’s Blocking Yo...

Louloua Smadi El Hajj
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What does it really take to change? In this solo episode, I share a raw and personal experience about transforming my 15-month-old daughter's chaotic sleep patterns into peaceful nights, and what it taught me about the science—and struggle—of change. I dive into the invisible addictions that hold us back, the roles we unconsciously play in perpetuating probl ... Show More
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