Hidden Agenda

We share how our therapist walked us through the “hidden agenda” of re-enactment that shows up as attachment drama in relationships.

Four Reflections:

1.  Three positive relationship characteristics from relationships in my childhood

2.  Three negative relationship characteristics from relationships in my childhood

3.  Three things I needed most in childhood (from my caregivers) and did NOT get

4.  Three "negative" feelings I experienced in childhood over and over and over again.

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