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Dec 2024
1h 15m

Beyond Resolutions: Discover What You Wa...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Why do New Year's resolutions usually fail by February? Forrest and Dr. Rick explore why traditional goal-setting falls short and offer a new approach to creating lasting change. They discuss how we can uncover our authentic wants and needs, move away from a punishment mindset, and use our new knowledge to find fulfillment. This episode will teach you how to ... Show More
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