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Dec 2024
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ICYMI: My Therapy Session with Esther Pe...

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Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there anything worse than being cheated on?

Abbie chats to her icon (aka her Lord and Saviour): World renowned Psychotherapist, Esther Perel.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield 
Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakharia
Digital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode 
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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