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Dec 2024
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102. Not for Resentment + How to Believe...

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It’s the last episode of the year, and Jess and Caroline are feeling kooky. After circling back on owls, they discuss what’s wrong with influencers, a pronunciation mishap in a sexual situation, and what it might be like if C and J were sexual partners.This leads to a deeper conversation about initiating sex in a long-term partnership, accepting different ways partners show affection, and how feeling undeserving can get in the way of true appreciation. Plus, they deliberate masculine vs feminine energy, labor languages, and some feelings about resentment. Listen to the end for some New Year’s resolutions where they somehow circle back, again, to owls — but this time, in French.

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