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Dec 2024
29m 44s

From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Teste...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.

With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:

1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)

5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety

10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman

12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone

14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women

18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet

20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact

22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time

Listen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.


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Quotes

"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"

What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett
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