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Dec 2024
51m 12s

I Don't Want to Turn Into My Mother

Esther Perel Global Media
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After becoming a mother for the first time, a young woman reflects on the complicated relationship with her own mother. Esther guides her through establishing boundaries with grace, breaking generational cycles, and the importance of self-acceptance. If you have an individual question you would like to talk through with Esther, please send a voice memo to p ... Show More
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