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Dec 2024
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(Rewind): When They Say "I Need Time," Y...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out?  

Yep, it’s totally normal.  

Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact situation.  

It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem or to think you somehow have to figure out what’s going on in their head and convince them to make the right choice.  

Instead, I want you to do this...

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