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Dec 2024
22m 56s

Taking my time: Why I refuse to date in ...

Twinkle Stanly
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💗 Welcome back to Honestly Speaking —this is Episode 3! In today's yap sesh, I’m getting *very* real about why I’m totally cool staying single right now. I talk about the exact qualities I look for in a partner, what makes them non-negotiable, and why I refuse to settle for less than what I think I deserve. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode is about trusting your timeline, and feeling confident in your choices. Let’s dive in. 🎧

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