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Jan 2025
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so...i’m challenging myself to stop hati...

Twinkle Stanly
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<p>Welcome back to another episode of Honestly Speaking!!!! In this episode, I’m taking on a big challenge for 2025: quitting the 'I Hate Men' mindset. Like many of us, I’ve found myself, not only falling into the 'all men are trash' narrative, but also adding to it in many ways —but this year, I’m rethinking how that perspective serves me (or doesn’t). It ... Show More
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