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Nov 2024
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The Real Secret of Success—Be a Likable ...

Jo Piazza
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How can you get the status you need and deserve? What makes people WANT to work with you? As a professor of organizational behavior at University of North Carolina Alison Fragale, the author of Likeable Badass, is trying to help women figure out how to gain the status we deserve. It’s easy to feel powerless at work and at home. But there are strategies we ca ... Show More
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