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Nov 2024
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Beyond Spa Days: Self-Care and the 8 Dim...

Gabe Howard & Dr. Nicole Washington
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Self-care for bipolar disorder is more than relaxation — it's about nurturing every part of your life, from physical health to emotional resilience. This episode dives deep into the “8 Dimensions of Wellness,” providing useful, practical ways to meet your unique needs and stay balanced. If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at self-care advice, this episode may just change your mind.

Listen in as our hosts delve into the often misunderstood concept of self-care. Gabe Howard, who lives with bipolar, confesses his love-hate relationship with self-care, admitting he's not the best at it and probably not alone. Together, he and Dr. Nicole Washington strip away the buzzword status of self-care, revealing it as an essential, practical toolkit for coping and thriving. They go beyond bubble baths and vacations and focus on building resilience in everyday life.

Whether it’s setting healthier boundaries at work or redefining daily routines, Gabe and Dr. Nicole’s insights offer relatable, actionable steps that will resonate with everyone. Listen now!

To learn more -- or read the transcript -- visit the show's official episode page.


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Our host, Gabe Howard, is an award-winning writer and speaker who lives with bipolar disorder. He is the author of the popular book, "Mental Illness is an Asshole and other Observations," available from Amazon; signed copies are also available directly from the author. To learn more about Gabe, or book him for your next event, please visit his website, gabehoward.com. You can also follow him on Instagram and TikTok at @askabipolar.


Our host, Dr. Nicole Washington, is a native of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, where she attended Southern University and A&M College. After receiving her BS degree, she moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma to enroll in the Oklahoma State University College of Osteopathic Medicine. She completed a residency in psychiatry at the University of Oklahoma in Tulsa. Since completing her residency training, Washington has spent most of her career caring for and being an advocate for those who are not typically consumers of mental health services, namely underserved communities, those with severe mental health conditions, and high performing professionals. Through her private practice, podcast, speaking, and writing, she seeks to provide education to decrease the stigma associated with psychiatric conditions. Find out more at DrNicolePsych.com.

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