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Nov 2024
22m 32s

Ep. 113 How To Be Confident In 20 Minute...

GRACE BEVERLEY
About this episode

Today we’re talking about how to become more confident. I really believe that confidence might just be the key to happiness, whether it’s in your career, your personal relationships, or even just how you talk to yourself. And understanding the root cause has shown me that confidence is something you can learn, it’s like any skill. And if there’s one thing I love - it’s learning skills. So i’m excited to break it down.


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I owe a huge amount to the writers & podcasters below whose work I researched for this episode!


Mel Robbins on Confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YZn2Q4IU53k


Amy Cuddy on Body Language: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc


For the original confidence-competence research: Stajkovic, A. D., & Luthans, F. (1998). "Self-Efficacy and Work-Related Performance: A Meta-Analysis." Psychological Bulletin, 124(2), 240-261.


Nicole Vignola, Rewire: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Rewire-Your-Neurotoolkit-Everyday-Life/dp/0241661838/ref=asc_df_0241661838/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=696285193871&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=2245301829665970926&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9045888&hvtargid=pla-2281435177858&psc=1&mcid=33e083c8d74835588d255c6e2da45c7a&th=1&psc=1&hvocijid=2245301829665970926-0241661838-&hvexpln=74&tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=696285193871&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=2245301829665970926&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9045888&hvtargid=pla-2281435177858&psc=1&gad_source=1


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