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Nov 2024
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Super Social but Super Shy

Alix Earle
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This week, Alix and Ashtin discuss the differences between being extroverted versus introverted. Ashtin, an introvert, details the occasional discomfort she feels in social situations; whereas Alix reveals her distaste for being alone. They talk about posting online, self-isolation, and being in big groups. The sisters also catch up on each other's lives and share some recent messy stories.

 

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