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Nov 2024
27m 13s

"My partner just doesn't care"

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode
This episode is for you if you perceive your partner doesn't care about you, or things in your relationship that you want them to care about— OR if your partner perceives YOU don't care. Either way, you'll have some new tools to work with to have better conversations!
 
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