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Oct 2024
1h 21m

How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Su...

Mel Robbins
About this episode

In this episode, you are getting the 6 secrets to a lasting partnership.

You will learn how to make love last and the key to keeping your relationship successful and strong.

Today, Mel and her husband Chris dive deep into the most important lessons they've learned in 28 years of marriage.

Mel and Chris share their real-time reactions to each other’s insights as they dive deep into the keys to a lasting relationship.

Together, they unpack how to handle resentment and unmet expectations, how to navigate family pressures, personal growth, and much more.

Whether you're in a relationship, navigating one, or simply curious about how to build a lasting connection, this episode offers authentic and relatable relationship advice you’ve never heard before.

For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.

If you liked this episode and would like to know more about how to build connection that lasts, listen to this episode next: The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You

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