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Feb 2024
1h 28m

Masterclass on Marriage (Guests: KevOnSt...

LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD
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Can a dreamer and a realist build a successful marriage together?

In episode 806, Kevin and Melissa Fredericks shared with host Laterras R. Whitfield the challenges of balancing dreams with reality, and the power of partnership. They share their journey through understanding, and growth, providing insights into making a marriage work against all odds. From facing fears and embracing differences to navigating financial hardships and the importance of communication, this episode is a true masterclass on marriage, offering lessons learned from their 20+ years together.

 

[00:00:00 - 00:05:24] Intro

[00:05:25 - 00:16:11] The beginning of content creation 

[00:16:12 - 00:21:16] Supporting your partner's vision 

[00:21:17 - 00:28:05] Integrating dreams and stability 

[00:28:06 - 00:32:48] Example of combining dreams with practical acumen

[00:32:49 - 00:37:50] Is it worth putting divorce on the table? 

[00:37:51 - 00:45:12] Storytime of how they fought for each other 

[00:45:13 - 00:52:00] Value the relationship that you have built 

[00:52:01 - 00:56:42] Practical tip when beefing

[00:56:43 - 01:08:09] Looking for professional help 

[01:08:10 - 01:12:04] Handling traveling and distance 

[01:12:05 - 01:15:09] The importance of having a value system 

[01:15:10 - 01:17:17] Leaving ego on the side

[01:17:18 - 01:20:45] Renewing your marital vows 

[01:20:46 - 01:28:29] Closing segment 

 

Key Quotes:

 

“Love is a risk, and with time that risk proves to be a good decision.” Melissa Fredericks

 

“Therapy allows you some skills, to learn how to navigate situations before you have to navigate them.” - Kevin Fredericks 

 

“Take the best of me, and take the best of her. That plan ends up being the best.” Kevin Fredericks 

 

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