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Falling in Love with Your Therapist (201...

Kirk Honda
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[Rerun] What do you do when you have feelings for your therapist? Falling in love? Wanting to be adopted? Dr. Kirk Honda answers a number of emails on this topic.

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November 4, 2019

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