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Mar 2025
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114. Not for Therapy Speak + Behind the ...

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Your hater and lover are back together again! After debriefing on the past two week’s episodes featuring friends, Caroline and Jess shift into how their families would fare in the apocalypse, give an update on their thoughts on knitting, talk Caroline’s approach to marketing on YouTube, and dive into Caroline’s recent engagement (!!!).

Plus, they get deep on how being annoyed is the price you pay for community and how boundaries can actually foster a relationship. Weaponized therapy speak, however, is NOT the way to maintain relationships, and an example from Love is Blind solidifies that idea. A little catchup on White Lotus and Severance rounds out the episode of a podcast that, despite some of the more recent episodes, is not a podcast about pop culture. Happy to be back together again, kooks.





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