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Oct 2024
33m 12s

Episode 335: How To Have Good Sex

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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If you had to define “good sex” in just three words, what would they be? In today’s show, we’re going to talk about the key things that come to mind when people are asked this question. There are 20 common responses to this, which constitute the main ingredients of the kind of sex we all want to be having. We’re going to dive into some of those i ... Show More
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