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Oct 2024
30m 9s

Why The Barista Activated Me, Defensiven...

The Angry Therapist
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Today, John talks about a recent experience at a coffee shop that triggered him. He explores navigating defensiveness in relationships, the importance of personal accountability, and the concept of situationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices 
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