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Oct 2024
13m 31s

How to Handle Unwanted Conversations

Civility Media
About this episode

You’re stuck in a conversation that you wish you could escape.


Maybe it’s office gossip, someone oversharing, or a topic that doesn’t interest you. 


But you’re not sure how to get out without seeming rude.


In this episode, I’m sharing my top 3 strategies to exit unwanted conversations—without being rude.


You'll learn how to calmly disengage, acknowledge without agreeing, and even directly express that you want to avoid certain topics.


These simple techniques will help you navigate tricky conversations with ease, saving you time and patience.


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