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Sep 2024
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How Our Attachment Styles Affect Our Bre...

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
About this episode

On this podcast the podcast we have Lucy Price. Lucy is a breakup and relationship coach who helps individuals heal from heartbreak, get over their exes, and create fulfilling lives. Lucy specializes in guiding clients through the emotional challenges of breakups, teaching self-love, and helping them rebuild confidence and clarity for the future.


We talk about: -How our attachment styles are reflected in a breakup. -How to navigate a breakup depending on our attachment tendencies. -Going no contact and is that the best move?

-Filling the void when we are feeling lonely.

-When its time to start dating again or enter a new relationship.

-Tools on how to get over your ex, heal from the heartbreak, and move forward in the most empowering way…

And so much more—Including intimate details about our own break up journeys.


Attachment Coaching With Jessica:

My secure Self (3 month Group Coaching Program) 

One-on-one Attachment Coaching

www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

@thejessicadasilva


Contact Lucy Price:

IG: @lucy.m.price

TikTok: @lucy.m.price

Website: www.shiftyourstory.net 

Podcast: Breakups and Breakthroughs

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