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Jul 2025
46m 42s

How to Tell If He's the One

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About this episode

How do you really know he's the one? It’s a question many of us ask while dating. Is it the butterflies in your stomach—or is it something deeper that doesn’t show up right away? In this episode, your internet big sis shares the moment she knew her fiancé was the one, opening up about love, timing, and gut feelings. As always, Toni and Producer Annisha dive into your juiciest dilemmas during Tea Time with Toni—including one listener's story that begs the question: What do you do when he can’t even cheat on you properly?


Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.


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