Apr 20
Breaking the Habit of Overthinking: Rumination, Cognitive Bypassing, and the Insight Trap
Why does knowing we overthink not help us stop? Dr. Rick and Forrest discuss why rumination becomes a self-reinforcing habit, and why insight alone rarely helps. They distinguish between rumination and reflection, and talk about how balancing acceptance and agency can help us go ... Show More
1h 22m
Apr 13
Trauma Therapy: What It’s Really Like with Dr. Jacob Ham and Elizabeth Ferreira
In this very special episode, Dr. Jacob Ham and associate therapist Elizabeth Ferreira join me to discuss their work as trauma therapists. They talk openly about the messy, unglamorous reality of struggle, mistakes, and repair that characterizes trauma work, its nature as both ar ... Show More
1h 16m
Aug 2025
The Sociopaths Among Us: How to Spot (and Avoid) a Dark Triad
Have you ever had an abusive boss, a partner who gaslit you at every turn, or a friend who always seemed to bend the truth? You might have crossed paths with someone in the Dark Triad.On this episode of Office Hours, I’m diving into a topic that doesn’t create happiness but often ... Show More
47m 44s
May 2025
How to Protect Yourself From a Narcissist: The 4 Boundaries Every Woman Needs | Dr. Ramani (Fan Fav)
This is a Fan Fav episode. Strap in, my friends—because today is a masterclass on navigating conversations with the narcissists in our lives. Whether it’s a parent, a partner, a boss, or a long-time friend, licensed clinical psychologist and viral expert Dr. Ramani is back in the ... Show More
1h 3m
Jan 2025
How to Handle Difficult People: Stoic Strategies, Empathy vs. Compassion, and Communication Techniques
Start here: If you want to build a consistent Stoic practice — not just listen to one — I made a free 7-day challenge. One short audio lesson per day, one practice to try. No fluff. stoicchallenge.co---In this episode, we explore practical strategies to manage challenging relatio ... Show More
1h 8m
Oct 2024
How To Know You're Dealing with a Narcissist: Telltale Signs to Watch Out For
<p class="p1">In this episode, <em>How to Know You're Dealing with a Narcissist: Tell-Tale Signs to Watch Out For</em>, Lisa A. Romano breaks down the emotional rollercoaster of dating a narcissist. She dives into the common signs, like feeling confused, walking on eggshells, and ... Show More
12m 57s
Jul 2025
7 FBI Negotiation Secrets to Outsmart Narcissists, Liars & Manipulators | Chris Voss
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with former FBI hostage negotiator, Chris Voss, a man who’s spent decades navigating the minds of some of the most dangerous and manipulative people on the planet—including terrorists, criminals, narcissists, and psychopaths. In this incredibly insightful co ... Show More
56m 19s
Aug 2025
001. The Dark Side of Self-Development | The Johnny Lawrence Podcast
In this episode, Johnny Lawrence delves into the often-overlooked dark side of self-development, discussing the pitfalls that can arise during personal growth. He explores the concept of narcissism, the influence of self-development grifters, and the dangers of blame and labellin ... Show More
20m 46s
Sep 2025
Why Smart Women Stay in Toxic Relationships (And Ignore the Red Flags) | Dr. Anna Machin
Craving love can connect us—or leave us vulnerable to harm we never saw coming. In this episode, I (Lisa Bilyeu) sit down with evolutionary anthropologist Dr. Anna Machin to peel back the science behind why we’re drawn to love, why it can blind us to red flags, and how manipulato ... Show More
55m 11s
Dr. Rick and Forrest unpack the "Dark Triad" of personality traits - narcissism, Machiavellianism, and sociopathy - and explore how these traits can manifest in everyday relationships. They talk about how individuals with these tendencies use charm and manipulation to control situations and people, and offer practical strategies for identifying these traits ... Show More
