Have you ever been in a relationship that made you feel insecure, put down, and used? Here's how to spot whether your partner has the dark triad, a trifecta of personality traits that can do serious damage in relationships, and advice for safely getting out.
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548. In a culture of likes, reviews, and constant comparison, deciding if you’ve "done well" can feel impossible. This week, interim host Dr. Ellen Hendriksen unpacks the trap of tying your value to others’ approval. She explores when external evaluation works and when it emphati ... Show More
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546. Self-compassion sounds simple—be kind to yourself—but for those of us with a loud inner critic, it can feel surprisingly hard to put into practice. This week, we’ll break down three truths that make self-compassion more doable and less fuzzy. If you’ve ever worried that self ... Show More
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Ep 134: How to Stop Insecurities From Hurting Your Relationship
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Jul 2022
30. how to know if he's playing you, romanticizing relationships, love bombing, how to stop judging women & MORE | Q&A
Hi girlies! Today's episode is a Q&A/advice session! Let's talk; spotting red flags of him playing you, leaving situationships, how to stop judging other women who you no longer align with, romanticizing relationships in your head, falling for men that you don't actually like, an ... Show More
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Ep 214. Navigating Relationships with High Functioning Anxiety
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