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Sep 2024
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395: Why Saying (And Hearing) ‘NO’ Is th...

Monica Yates
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Plus, How to Avoid and Begin Healing the Poison of Resentment


Inspired by a reel that won’t stop going viral, Monica’s breaking down why saying (and hearing) NO must be a CORNERSTONE for the health and longevity of your relationship. Listen to the episode for the WHY because *this* is a major part of the recipe for a healthy relationship that doesn’t die from the poison of resentment and bitterness like so many (sadly) do. 🙅🏼‍♀️💔


Here are a couple other nuggets from this one to look forward to:


🌶️ why your people pleasing patterns will destroy your relationship

🌶️ the biggest killer of relationships (it’s not what you think)

🌶️ how knowing/not knowing how to say “no” affects TRUST + respect

🌶️ the power of knowing + honoring your NO

🌶️ is healing resentment in your relationship possible?

🌶️ how to become a highly valued + respected woman

🌶️ how to know if your boundaries are healthy or toxic

🌶️ the signs of unhealthy codependency

🌶️ how to nurture a safe emotional environment in your relationship

🌶️ the importance of identifying + healing your emotional trauma 

🌶️ how to create real, embodied safety in your relationship


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