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Sep 2024
6m 44s

"My New Girlfriend Talks Over Me - What ...

The Charisma Matrix - Barron Cruz: Social Strategist, Vocal Coach & YouTube Creator
About this episode

We've got Kevin, a guy who's dating a woman who can't seem to let him get a word in edgewise. Sound familiar? It should, because we've all seen that viral clip of Zuckerberg getting steamrolled by his wife. It's not just annoying - it's a red flag, folks.

In this video, I'm breaking down why letting someone talk over you is a one-way ticket to Doormat City. We're gonna dive into how to man up, set some boundaries, and figure out if this chick is worth the hassle.

I've been in the trenches of social dynamics for years, and trust me, this isn't just about being polite. It's about respect, power dynamics, and not letting yourself get pushed around. Whether you're a tech billionaire or an average Joe, nobody deserves to be silenced in their own relationship. 

So if you're tired of playing second fiddle in your own conversations, stick around. I'm gonna show you how to take back control without being a jerk about it. It's time to level up your social game and get the respect you deserve.

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