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Aug 2024
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Navigating Relationships with Emotionall...

MONIQUE KOVEN
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In this second conversation, Host Monique Koven and psychologist and author Dr. Lindsay Gibson discuss emotional immaturity and its impact on relationships. They explore the characteristics of emotional immaturity, such as egocentrism and poor empathy, and how it can manifest in various relationships. They also discuss the continuum of emotional maturity and the role of hope in dealing with emotionally immature individuals. Dr. Gibson offers insights into the experiences of those raised by emotionally immature parents and offers strategies for navigating relationships with emotionally immature people. She also shares information about her books on the topic.


takeaways:

Emotional immaturity can manifest in various relationships, including parent-child relationships, romantic relationships, and friendships.

  • Emotional immaturity is characterized by egocentrism and poor empathy, where individuals prioritize their own needs and emotions over others.
  • Emotional maturity is a continuum, and individuals can exhibit emotional immaturity in certain areas while being mature in others.
  • Hope is important in dealing with emotionally immature individuals, but it is also important to recognize and set boundaries to protect oneself.
  • Those raised by emotionally immature parents may have developed skills in caretaking and empathy, but it is important for them to prioritize their own needs and establish healthy boundaries in relationships.
  • Listening to one's body and recognizing how relationships make them feel can help identify emotionally draining or unhealthy dynamics.

Dr. Lindsay C Gibson's Books 

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

https://amzn.to/4ejxmnm


Disentangling From Emotionally Immature People 

https://amzn.to/3XX304j




Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence

https://amzn.to/3MZrUtX


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