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Feb 2025
50m 57s

Sexy Bonding Hacks

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex itself? When you take the focus off the bedroom, and turn your focus toward adventure – the kind that gets your heart-pumping, your adrenaline going, and your anticipation building – a cool thing happens in your brain. You’re excited, and that excitement spills over from the activity into…sex. Pretty nifty, right?

So on today’s show, we’re going to trust, touch, and titillate our way towards arousal, with bonding hacks you can use on your next date whether it is with a long term partner or someone new. Plus, I take your questions! Ways to feel confident and sexual again after a breakup, how to have kinky sex with a partner who says they aren’t interested, how to decide if you should wait to develop a relationship with a super busy person or cut em’ loose, how to take sexy pictures with each other, and how to communicate your needs efficiently outside the bedroom so that you can reignite the spark when you’re back inside.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Sexy bonding hacks that build trust, boost intimacy, and turn you on
  • How adrenaline-fueled dates like rock climbing or karaoke make you hotter for each other
  • The fix for mismatched kinks, low libido, and getting your sex life back on track


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