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Aug 2024
1h 19m

Embracing Perfectionism with Katherine M...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Forrest explores how we can harness perfectionism’s strengths without getting captured by its vulnerabilities with therapist and author Katherine Morgan Schafler. They talk about perfectionism’s bad branding, and how our relationship with perfectionism can lead to it being either a superpower or a stumbling block. They discuss the different types of perfecti ... Show More
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