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Oct 2020
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04 - PERFECTIONISM - 99 Problemz & Perfe...

LOUISE RUMBALL
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In today’s live therapy session Dr Helene and I explore what it means to be a perfectionist. For me, I have never classified myself as one - I always thought that I was too ‘much’ to be a perfectionist. I wasn’t super tidy, nor the perfect homemaker, the perfect partner or the perfect daughter, and I always had so much on my plate, that I never thought this ... Show More
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