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Aug 2024
1h 13m

A Man's Journey to Commitment

Shane Kohler
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If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you.

Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there. 

While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as weakness and met with ridicule.

Still, the raw need for connection lives within every man and when a woman can create a safe space for him to express this vulnerable need, he will often fall in love and commit to her for life.

In this episode, I'm sharing how to do that.

I hope you enjoy it, and thanks for listening.       

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