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Aug 2024
55m 57s

Peacemaking and Conflict Resolution In T...

THE ART OF CHARM
About this episode

In today's episode, we dive into the art of productive discourse, the challenges posed by modern technology, and the 10 essential habits of a peacemaker with Steven T. Collis, a distinguished law professor and expert in First Amendment rights. As a scholar dedicated to understanding and navigating the complexities of free speech and religious liberty, Steven has spent years engaging in some of the most contentious topics of our time. His insightful perspectives have been shared across North America, where he educates audiences on the sophisticated tactics used by social media companies to keep us addicted and the importance of intellectual humility in today's polarized world. In this episode, we explore key insights from his upcoming book, "Habits of a Peacemaker," available this September.


Join us for an insightful conversation with Steven T. Collis, where he discusses the challenges of modern communication and the critical role of peacemaking in today's polarized society. How can we break free from the habits that social media companies have engineered to keep us addicted and instead foster more productive and meaningful discourse? What are the essential habits that can help us navigate difficult conversations and bridge divides? Steven shares his expert insights on cultivating intellectual humility, the power of real learning, and the surprising ways humor can be a tool for connection. Discover practical strategies to become a more effective peacemaker, enhance your relationships, and contribute to a more respectful and understanding world both online and offline.


What to Listen For

Introduction – 00:00:00

  • What inspired Steven T. Collis to write "Habits of a Peacemaker" and why is peacemaking more important than ever?
  • How does Steven’s background in First Amendment law influence his approach to productive discourse?
  • What challenges do modern technologies, especially social media, pose to our ability to engage in meaningful conversations?

The Art of Productive Discourse – 00:03:00

  • What habits can help you engage in more productive and respectful conversations?
  • How can you overcome the addictive nature of social media to focus on real learning and intellectual humility?
  • Why is it important to seek out differing viewpoints, and how can this practice improve your understanding of complex issues?

Social Media's Impact on Communication – 00:10:45

  • How do social media platforms use psychological techniques from the gambling industry to keep users engaged?
  • What are the dangers of echo chambers and how can they hinder productive discourse?
  • What strategies can you use to protect yourself from the negative effects of social media on your communication habits?

Developing Intellectual Humility – 00:16:14

  • What does it mean to have intellectual humility, and why is it crucial for productive dialogue?
  • How can you reframe conversations to focus on learning rather than debating?
  • Why is it important to recognize the limits of your knowledge, especially when discussing complex topics?


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