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Nov 2024
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Jordan Peterson: 5 Ways to Shift Envy in...

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About this episode

What triggers envy for you?

How do you turn envy into action?

Today, in this eye-opening episode, Jay Jay sits down with the legendary Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, a psychologist, educator, and bestselling author. This conversation has been in the making for years, and it’s packed with deep insights on human development, identity, and how ancient wisdom ties into today’s challenges.

One of the standout moments is when Jordan talks about his upcoming book, We Who Wrestle With God. He takes listeners through the timeless stories of the Old Testament, explaining how they provide profound lessons on values, integrity, and personal growth. He also talks about the importance of always telling the truth and viewing life as an exploration of what’s possible. 

Jay and Jordan discuss how easy it is for people to get trapped in “false adventures”—chasing immediate gratification or quick fixes that ultimately don’t fulfill. Jordan reminds us that real growth involves shedding old parts of ourselves to move forward and align with bigger, long-term goals.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build a Life of Integrity

How to Turn Failure into Learning Opportunities

How to Stay True to Long-Term Goals

How to Practice Gratitude Daily

How to Recognize and Avoid Short-Sighted Decisions

How to Align Your Actions with Your Purpose

How to Balance Ambition and Ethical Living

This conversation highlights the power of facing challenges, learning from experiences, and staying aligned with long-term goals.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

1:24 How Technology Exacerbates Manipulation

08:13 Escaping A Limited Reality

09:41 Addressing Problems At The Root

13:55 The Effectiveness of Psychotherapy on Psychopaths

18:17 The Mindset of Predatory Psychopaths

21:03 Tips for Women to Protect Themselves from Manipulative People

24:16 PTSD And Its Impact 

27:17 How Stories Shape Our Identity

37:06 Why Self-Consciousness Leads to Misery

40:03 The Difference Between Seeing and Thinking

47:54 The Importance of Long-Term Vision

52:56 The Dangers of Envy

55:28 Strategies to Overcome Envy

59:57 The Role of Pride and Arrogance in Personal Growth

01:05:14 The Art of Understanding Through Listening

01:09:04 Avoiding the Weaponization of Truth

01:10:45 How Short-Term Gratification Derails Progress

01:13:11 Setting Standards With Encouragement 

01:16:31 Sources Of Hope Today

01:26:02 Jordan On Final 5

Episode Resources:

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Website

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | YouTube

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Instagram

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Facebook

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | TikTok

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