Today, John gives advice on how to emotionally prepare to leave a long-term relationship. He emphasizes the importance of building a better relationship with yourself, and creating a program or structure for yourself during this transition, including having a support system, engaging in somatic experiences, setting goals, and more.
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Going Rogue: The Truth About Becoming Yourself
In this raw, unfiltered reflection, John shares the real story behind going rogue as a therapist — from coffee-shop sessions to walk-and-talks, to breaking every rule therapy school ever taught him.
He explores the lifelong pattern of exchanging truth for membership, the fear of ... Show More
22m 27s
Aug 2023
How Not To Settle In A Relationship Pt1
<p>We often get back what we give in our connections with others, whether it is a friend, co-worker, lover, or spouse. Dr. Phil talks about this idea and emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for the quality of our relationships by being a "life manager." He also hig ... Show More
50m 11s
Nov 2024
Sex Work, Life Purpose, and Lack of Sleep
<p>Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat? </p>
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59m 49s
Oct 2024
Male Sexuality, Leaving Your Marriage, and Gen Z
<p>Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jea ... Show More
1h 8m
Jan 2025
3471: Why You Should Incorporate Your Feelings into Your Goal Setting AND How to Stay Consistent by Chalene Johnson
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.
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Aligning your goals with your emotions makes them more meaningful, while building systems for consistency ensures lon ... Show More
10m 38s
Apr 2024
Setting Goals, Habit Building, Body Dysmorphia & More | The HigherUp Podcast Ep. 16
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<p>In this episode of the podcast, I answer questions from my private community members and share my answers with you all. The questions answered are as follows:</p>
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<p>1. "I think hearing your perspective on good hab ... Show More
31m 49s