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Mar 2020
9m 45s

Now is Your Time to Lead as an INFP Enne...

Mindset & Communication Coach Sarah Mikutel
About this episode

Hello from lock down in the UK. I’m sending you a big virtual hug wherever you are waiting out the COVID-19 coronavirus.

Do you feel like you’re the only one not losing your mind grapes right now? Or maybe you were feeling really calm, but easing the anxiety of others is weighing on you and now you’re freaking out? I imagine we’ll feel a range of emotions while sheltering at home.

As Enneagram 9s, our go-to feeling is calm, and the world needs this energy. Now is our time to step up as leaders.

When life gives us lemons, we make lemonade. We ask why things happen ‘for’ us instead of asking why things happen ‘to’ us.

To help us thrive creatively and professionally during this time, I’ve created a Facebook Group just for INFP Enneagram 9s.

This is intended as an oasis of calm for us. A place to help each other and ask questions and share ideas to help further or creativity, business pursuits, or however we want to thrive. Maybe we can do some online events together, like virtual happy hour or co-working.

You can find the group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/infpthriveforenneagram9s

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Hello! I'm your host, Sarah Mikutel. But the real question is, who are you? Where are you now and where do you want to be? Can I help you get there?

Visit sarahmikutel.com to learn how we can work together to help you achieve more peace, happiness, and positive transformation in your life.

Book your Enneagram typing session by going to sarahmikutel.com/typingsession

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