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Jul 2024
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Shut Up Rings, Shut Up Moves & The Fine ...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

Hey Lifers,

Delilah has been kicked out of dog school. Again!
Britt shares how she feels like it's a reflection of her and it turns out that pretty privilege also exists in the canine world!
Very sadly, Laura's nan passed away last week. We speak about the concept of the 'rally' where people in the last stage of life seem to have the fog lifted. Laura got to enjoy this moment with her nana. 

Have you ever heard of a shut up ring? What about a shut up move?

We unpack these ideas and how we determine where the line between nagging and good communication is. 

Is it always ‘if they wanted to he would’ or do some people need prompting?

Whether you feel satisfied with a shut up move because you got what you wanted, just not in the way that you wanted it.

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