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Jul 2024
1h 22m

Depressed Husband vs Codependent Wife

Kirk Honda
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Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Enablement or support?
22:01 Letting go of change & graduate school
28:30 Radical acceptance
41:54 2015 OPP
46:05 Bob's birthday messages & relaxing
1:13:08 OPP 2
1:14:51 Complex Integration of Multiple Brain Systems

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